10 most relatable things about Monica Geller

On FriendsMonica Geller plays the mother hen of the gang, making her indispensable in almost any situation. She takes care of her friends' problems and they often hang out in her apartment. She cooks delicious meals, cooks breakfasts and hosts parties, ensuring her friends feel taken care of.

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Monica's approachability, wisdom and great character arc make her a very relatable character. She has her quirks and flaws, as well as moments of growth, on Friends. She goes from being financially stable to facing unemployment and eventually landing her dream job. While Monica's experiences often resonate with viewers of the show, some moments are more relatable than others.

10

Welcome Rachel to the real world

Season 1, Episode 1 “The One Where Monica Gets a Roommate”

Joey Monica Rachel in Friends.
Joey Monica Rachel in Friends.

The story of Friends basically begins when Monica welcomes sixth friend and runaway bride Rachel to the group. She gives Rachel a reality check without scaring her or making her feel lost after taking such a bold step.

Rachel goes through a series of mini panic attacks, but Monica knows just the right way to guide her. At the end of the episode, when Rachel finally decides to embrace financial freedom, Monica chimes in with these words that encapsulate life in the Big Apple: “Welcome to the real world! It sucks! You're going to love it!”

9

Trying to learn new things

Season 1, Episode 21 “The One with the Fake Monica”

Fake Monica and Monica in Friends.
Fake Monica and Monica in Friends.

Although Monica often looks like she's got it all figured out, “The One With the Fake Monica” reveals that she also longs to break the rules and let go, even if it's for a while. She expresses repressed need after her credit card is stolen, deeply troubled by the thief doing what she initially calls “reckless spending.”

Monica eventually befriends the thief and hangs out with her at crash weddings, skipping work, auditioning for Broadway musicals, and doing things she wouldn't normally do. She comes across as deeply human during this brief phase, and it's fun to see her act a little more ruthlessly than usual.

8

Everything that people enjoy

Season 8, Episode 20 “The One With The Baby Shower”

Monica hugs Sandra in Friends.
Monica hugs Sandra in Friends.

Monica loves compliments and just being everyone's favorite. She tries way too hard to please Rachel's mom after realizing that Sandra is upset about being invited to her daughter's baby shower at the last minute.

Monica admits that she has to please people. Throughout Friendsand especially at Rachel's baby shower, she encounters a strikingly relatable character and a person who likes to be liked.

7

That painful breakup

Season 2, Episode 24 “The One with Barry and Mindy's Wedding”

Monica and Richard dance in Friends.
Monica and Richard dance in Friends.

When Richard admits that he doesn't want children, but Monica does, she decides to break up with him. Monica is a young woman who has always wanted children of her own. Although she and Richard are perfect together, this difference is non-negotiable for her.

Monica bravely makes the decision to leave, even though the decision causes her heartache. She is incredibly vulnerable during the period that follows, but eventually bounces back stronger.

6

Can't cope

Season 2, Episode 14 “The One with the Prom Video”

Joey Monica Chandler and Phoebe in Friends.
Joey Monica Chandler and Phoebe in Friends.

Monica is fired from her job for accepting input as a gift from the meat supplier, which her boss believes is a violation of company policy. She is unable to rent in the aftermath, and thus depends on her older brother, Ross, for help.

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Financial problems are common and Monica is brave in asking for help in her early adulthood. Ross steps in to help her with a check, and she promises to pay him back as soon as she can.

5

Afraid of change

Season 6, Episode 6 “The One on the Last Night”

Chandler and Monica in Friends.
Chandler and Monica in Friends.

Monica's words, “And now I have to live with a boy!” reflects her anxiety about giving up the comfortable and meticulous space she shared with Rachel in order to have Chandler move in with her. Of Friends Season 6, Monica and Chandler are in a committed relationship and decide to take it a step further by moving in together.

At first, Monica is excited about living with Chandler. But it soon dawns on her that living with a man is not as idyllic as it seems. She embraces her roommate and best friend, Rachel, on their last night together, acknowledging the end of an era.

4

Take back her power

Season 4, Episode 2 “The One with the Cat”

Chandler Rachel and Monica in Friends.
Chandler Rachel and Monica in Friends.

Monica becomes very relatable when she goes on a date with Chip Matthews, the once desirable high school boy who used to date Rachel. Unsurprisingly, Rachel takes issue with the date, but Monica stands her ground, claiming she owes it to her younger self to go out with Chip.

But Monica quickly realizes that Chip is still mentally stuck in high school and dumps him. When she reaches their apartment, she happily tells Rachel that she took back her power by dumping the guy.

3

Coping with adulthood

Season 1, Episode 6 “The One with the Butt”

Monica can't sleep in Friends.
Monica can't sleep in Friends.

Although Monica is a sensible adult, she struggles early on with the weight of responsibility Friends. There's a whole conversation going on with her friends where she reminds herself that she doesn't always have to pay bills on time or be organized and responsible.

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Monica admits she can be a bit of a “cook”, but deep down she knows she's settled into adulthood. It's a good sign that she's starting to act more responsibly, even if it's just the early stages of adulthood.

2

A deeply competitive sibling relationship

Throughout Friends

Monica and Ross share a competitive but deeply loving relationship, which is one of the most endearing dynamics on the show. Competitive moments like the Geller Bowl or Monica and Ross debating who beats who at wrestling as kids are classic examples of a normal sibling dynamic.

Monica and Ross' relationship is characterized by love, protectiveness, healthy competition and occasional teasing. Their bond forms an emotional core of Friends and is one reason the show remains so beloved.

1

Her drive and ambition

Throughout Friends

Monica at work in Friends.
Monica at work in Friends.

Courteney Cox's Monica is quickly back in the swing after becoming head chef at Allesandro's, and later Javu. Her passion evolved from working as a sous chef at Iridium to serving diner food at Moondance, to briefly becoming a food critic, caterer and finding herself at Allesandros.

Even while happily employed at Allesandro's, Monica continues to aim higher, eventually making her way to the fine dining restaurant Javu.


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Friends


Release date

1994 – 2004

Network

NBC

Showrunner

Marta Kauffman




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